Make More, Say Less (eBook)
148 Seiten
Bookbaby (Verlag)
9798317818180 (ISBN)
Stephon Lawson is an information technology professional, author, and strategist whose work blends discipline, focus, and vision into practical guidance for achieving financial and personal growth. With a successful career in IT and years of experience solving complex challenges, Stephon brings the same clarity and precision into his writing. A proud father of three sons, Stephon began writing his debut book, 'Make More, Say Less,' during a hurricane season in Florida. What started as an outlet during storms soon became a mission: to create a timeless guide his children and readers everywhere could use to prepare for life's challenges, pursue financial independence, and navigate the world with clarity and resilience. His philosophy is simple yet powerful: grind with purpose, protect your energy, build wealth through smart strategies, and move in silence. Stephon's writing reflects the same focus and determination that drive his professional career to remain agile, actionable, and forward-thinking. When he isn't writing, Stephon can be found with his family, weight training at the gym, or enjoying the beach. In these moments, he lives out the patience, persistence, and self-mastery that he teaches.
What happens when the grind stops and the world doesn't?Too many people move through life on autopilot, hoping for stability while quietly drowning under financial pressure, distractions, and burnout. In Make More, Say Less, Stephon Lawson challenges you to break free from that cycle with a clear and practical framework for building wealth, protecting your energy, and creating a life of clarity and strength. Written during a Florida hurricane season, this book is both a guide and a warning: storms can strike at any moment. Lawson, an information technology professional and father of three, delivers practical insights designed to help you emerge stronger, sharper, and more disciplined in your finances and your mindset. Inside this book, you will discover: The power of the grind: Why embracing discipline and patience sets you apart Focus and concentration: How to channel energy toward what truly matters Financial agility: Strategies to outpace inflation, diversify income, and build net worth Protecting your energy: How to recognize incompatibility and avoid draining influences Moving in silence: Why humility and discretion amplify your success Self-mastery and resilience: How persistence, patience, and clarity allow you to thrive under pressureEach chapter delivers wisdom without wasted words, giving you tools you can apply immediately to improve your financial independence, sharpen your discipline, and strengthen your resilience. This is not theory or empty motivation. It is a blueprint for action. Make More, Say Less speaks to anyone who has felt the weight of uncertainty and is ready to take control of their financial and personal future. Whether your goal is to increase income, achieve personal growth, or cultivate the confidence to thrive in adversity, this book equips you to not just survive, but thrive. The question is not whether storms will come. The question is, will you be ready?
Chapter 1: The Journey Begins— Embracing Your True Self
“Stay true to yourself. An original is worth more than a copy.” — Suzy Kassem
In a world overflowing with noise and expectations, the first step to making more and saying less is to embrace who you truly are. Authenticity isn’t just a buzzword; it’s the foundation upon which innovation and success are built. When you strip away the layers of societal pressure and self-doubt, you reveal the unique qualities that only you can bring to the table.
Success does not happen overnight. It’s built brick by brick, with consistent effort, discipline, and resilience. To create the life you desire, you must first commit to embracing the grind. The grind represents the hard work, the sacrifices, and the countless hours it takes to sharpen your skills and achieve your goals.
The world often pressures us to conform, whether it’s chasing trends, imitating others, or sacrificing authenticity for acceptance. However, the truth is, the most sustainable and fulfilling success is rooted in self-awareness and authenticity. When you embrace the grind and your true self, you lay the foundation for a life and career that align with your values, passions, and long-term goals.
What Does It Mean to Embrace the Grind?
Embracing the grind means showing up every day, even when the odds are against you. It means putting in the work when no one is watching, staying disciplined when distractions arise, and persevering when challenges test your resolve. The grind is not glamorous, it’s often messy, uncomfortable, and exhausting.
Think about some of the most successful people in any industry. Their stories are often filled with late nights, early mornings, and moments of doubt. Their commitment to the process is what separates them from the rest. They understand that success isn’t about shortcuts or quick wins, it’s about consistency, resilience, and a relentless focus on their goals.
Here are some ways to embrace the grind in your own life:
1. Develop a Routine: Structure your day to prioritize what matters most. Create habits that support your goals, whether it’s waking up early to work on a side project, dedicating time to learning a new skill, or carving out space for self-care.
2. Stay Disciplined: Motivation may come and go, but discipline will keep you moving forward. Hold yourself accountable, even when you don’t feel like it.
3. Celebrate Progress: The grind isn’t just about the end result—it’s about the journey. Acknowledge your progress and small wins along the way.
4. Identify Your “Why”: Your purpose is your fuel. Write down why your goals matter to you and revisit them whenever you need motivation.
5. Break It Down: Big goals can be overwhelming. Break them into smaller, manageable steps and focus on one at a time.
6. Commit to Consistency: Success is the sum of small efforts repeated daily. Create habits that move you closer to your goals.
7. Find Joy in the Process: The grind doesn’t have to be miserable. Find ways to make your work enjoyable, whether it’s through celebrating milestones or connecting with others who share your vision.
Embracing the grind and your true self is a lifelong commitment. It’s about showing up, staying authentic, and putting in the work, even when it’s hard. The journey won’t always be easy, but it will be worth it.
When you align your efforts with your values and stay true to who you are, you’ll not only achieve success but also build a life of meaning and fulfillment. Remember, the grind is where the magic happens and you have everything you need to make it happen.
While embracing the grind is essential, it’s equally important to recognize when you’re pushing yourself too hard. Burnout is real, and success should never come at the expense of your well-being. Self-awareness is the key to maintaining this balance.
“Do not wish for an easy life, wish for the strength to endure a difficult one.” — Bruce Lee
The Importance of Staying True to Yourself
In the pursuit of success, it’s easy to lose sight of who you are. When you stay true to yourself, you attract opportunities, relationships, and experiences that align with your values and vision. Remember this, authenticity is your greatest asset.
Here’s why authenticity matters:
• It Builds Trust: People can sense when you’re genuine. Whether it’s in business or personal relationships, authenticity fosters trust and loyalty.
• It Sustains You: Pretending to be someone you’re not is exhausting. Staying true to yourself allows you to focus your energy on what truly matters.
• It Sets You Apart: In a world full of imitation, authenticity is rare. By being yourself, you create a unique path that no one else can replicate.
Here are some questions to ask yourself regularly:
• Am I working toward something I truly believe in?
• Does my daily routine reflect my values and priorities?
• Am I taking care of my physical, mental, and emotional health?
By checking in with yourself, you can ensure that your grind is both productive and sustainable.
Building a Growth Mindset
Embracing the grind also requires a shift in mindset. Challenges and setbacks are inevitable, but they’re also opportunities to learn and grow. Adopting a growth mindset will help you view obstacles as stepping stones rather than roadblocks.
Here’s how to cultivate a growth mindset:
1. Welcome Challenges: See them as opportunities to improve, not as threats to your success.
2. Seek Feedback: Constructive criticism is a gift. Use it to refine your skills and strategies.
3. Learn from Failure: Every setback has a lesson. Reflect on what went wrong and how you can do better next time.
For years, I found myself molded by the opinions of others whether it was friends, family, or at times even strangers. I chased approvals and validations, often at the expense of my own desires and values. The further I went down this path, the more disconnected I felt from myself.
It wasn’t until I began to question conformity and at one point hit rock bottom that I discovered my authentic self. This wasn’t an overnight realization, it was a journey marked by discomfort, self-doubt, and moments of clarity. I had to unlearn the need for external validation and replace it with a deep commitment to honoring my own values.
This transformation required courage. Breaking free from the opinions of others meant redefining relationships, priorities, and even how I viewed success. It meant saying “no” more often and creating space for what truly mattered to me. It was not easy, but it was transformative.
I realized that conformity is a thief, it steals your uniqueness, your creativity, and your potential. The world doesn’t need another version of what’s already been done; it needs your originality. Once I embraced this truth, I stopped being afraid of standing out and started being afraid of blending in.
I learned to take steps with confidence and certainty, when I spoke there was no more self-doubt. Unfortunately, sometimes fear can immobilize you, but remember you are resilient and able to elevate. You must learn to think outside of the box and be comfortable with others not understanding you. You must chase down knowledge and wisdom as if it were a scarce resource. Belief starts with you trusting in yourself through moments of adversity.
Society often glorifies the idea of fitting in, but this conformity comes at a cost. Think of the countless innovative ideas that never saw the light of day because someone was afraid to stand out. Look at the stories of leaders like Steve Jobs or Maya Angelou, individuals who defied expectations and created waves because they embraced their true selves. They remind us that innovation flourishes when we dare to be different.
There is Strength in Vulnerability
It’s easy to believe that strength comes from perfection, but the truth is that strength comes from authenticity and authenticity is rooted in vulnerability. Vulnerability doesn’t mean weakness; it means having the courage to be seen as you truly are. It’s about showing up even when you’re uncertain or afraid, and understanding that your imperfections are what make you human.
As Brené Brown, a researcher on vulnerability and shame, said: “Vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity, and change.” When I allowed myself to be vulnerable, to admit my struggles, and to embrace my imperfections, I found a reservoir of strength I didn’t know I had.
Consider this: The most genuine connections in life are built not on perfection but on shared struggles and mutual understanding. Your vulnerability invites others to be vulnerable too, creating an environment of trust and authenticity.
Connecting Through Shared Pain Points
I know how it feels to question your path, to wonder if you’re enough, and to fear that being yourself won’t be enough to succeed. These thoughts are isolating, but they’re also universal. You’re not...
| Erscheint lt. Verlag | 11.9.2025 |
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| Sprache | englisch |
| Themenwelt | Sachbuch/Ratgeber ► Beruf / Finanzen / Recht / Wirtschaft |
| ISBN-13 | 9798317818180 / 9798317818180 |
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