Steering Blind (eBook)

Steve Martell, Rebecca Mayglothling (Autoren)

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2022 | 1. Auflage
266 Seiten
Bookbaby (Verlag)
978-1-6678-6897-4 (ISBN)

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Carefree and ready to take on the world, Steve Martell, a happy-go-lucky youngster, never considered that his life would be anything but idyllic, until the day he was thrown violently into a life-altering coma. After surviving, he finds himself emerging into a world with which he is quite unfamiliar. Suddenly faced with disabilities ranging from physical, to mental and emotional, he realized he had two choices: wheel around aimlessly or stand and deliver. Using life stories that range from humorous to heartbreaking, including prank calls and taking control of his own physical therapy, Steve uses raw honesty and straight talk to portray a boy who is adorably flawed, hopelessly broken, and has learned to redirect his life on his own. He demonstrates what happens when an individual takes charge of his own destiny, ignoring professionals who tell him he will not only walk, but never think for himself again. This is the book for people who have lost hope but want to know how to find it again. It is for those who have found life abruptly altered and need an extra boost to find their path again. It is for everyone who has ever lost faith in themselves, in their lives, and is knee deep in finding that faith in self again.

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CHAPTER I
The Early Years

I was born on Flag Day in 1962 in the real Upstate New York. I was closer to Canada than I was to New Jersey; it was all lakes and country living. You wouldn’t find skyscrapers within 250 miles of my house. Strange as it seems, some of my best memories involve mud and lakes.

Life was easy.

My family was carefree and always had something going on. Our house was full of people all the time, so I guess you could say being lonely wasn’t an option. When your parents have eight kids, you get a full house even when no one’s over to visit.

I was the youngest of those eight. My brother Mike was the oldest, followed by Patt, Rick, Diane, and Don, who were twins, Dave, and Jeanmarie. My father had nicknames for all of us and mine was “Hunkey” because he said I was born with fuzzy blonde hair. I still can’t figure out the connection. All I know is some people never knew my real name until I was thirteen.

It was the wonder years for me, growing up in our country setting just outside Syracuse, New York - simple life, simple times. It was my entire family who truly inspired and shaped me.

Us kids had a normal childhood. The term “normal” is used loosely here; what was normal back then is anything but normal today. We believed things that were blatant lies because there was no Google to go ask or Siri to echo back. We got really bored sometimes because we didn’t have constant entertainment at our fingertips, but the boredom made the fun times all the better.

When I say it was simple times with clean fun, I mean it! We found things to do for entertainment, and those things weren’t always in our best interest. What did we know, though? Our parents let us have the run of the neighborhood because a “helicopter” was still something that flew around in the sky, not a parent who looked over our shoulder every second. Everyone trusted everyone else. Girl Scouts could actually knock-on doors to sell cookies, not count on their parents to sell them in their work breakrooms. My brother Rick could nonchalantly speed down our road with his Go-Kart, usually with a spotter to heed warning of oncoming traffic. Yeah, growing up was different back then. I don’t know if it was safer, but it sure was different.

Our house wasn’t anything fancy, but it was comfortable enough. For some reason, my mom was always trying to hide it from passing traffic. We had three swamp willows in the front yard that always had giant puddles under them, as well as a few large lilac bushes, which suited Mom just fine. Those puddles rarely went away and are a big part of my childhood.

Always on Black Friday, Mom would have us kids cut down a large pine tree from our forest out back and put the trunk in one of the puddles. There it would stay for two weeks until we dragged it inside for Christmas. I’d always try to help decorate the tree with my sisters, and Jeanmarie would always get mad at me for heaping the tinsel on the lower branches. To my sister’s relief, soon I would lose interest and fall back to watching Rudolph or The Grinch.

We had a normal looking house - a long ranch house that my father built around 1960. When you walked in the front door, there was a long dining room table in a room that was supposed to be a living room. It had two leaves that would extend its length for special holidays such as Thanksgiving and Christmas, and that was our “special events” area. Every Christmas, we would call my grandparents in frigid Old Forge, New York, and every year, Grandpa Martell would convince us that he was helping Santa grease the runners on the sleigh. That holiday table was as much a part of the holidays as that annual phone call.

To the left was a sliding wooden door that opened to a kitchen, that usually came off its rolling track. The kitchen also had a big table that wasn’t as nice as the special events number in the living room. It was that funky 70’s chrome and yellow style that’s only found in 50’s themed restaurants today. The living room was sunk into the floor in the style of the times and had an old black and white TV. We used to have to “warm it up” to get an image to gradually show and it only had four stations: CBS, ABC, NBC, and Public Broadcasting. Dad loved Ed Sullivan. In fact, when Dad cooked for us, he’d watch Ed and assign one of us to give the set a few good whacks when the picture started to roll. I watched Quinn-Martin Productions, Hee Haw, Smother’s Brothers, Hogan’s Heroes, Laugh-in, Green Acres, Columbo, and MASH. I stayed away from Lawrence Welk, but my parents liked it. I was all boy, and my TV was all humor, with a few Clint Eastwood movies for flavor. “Go ahead punk, make my day,” was my favorite catch phrase.

The TV stations would go off at midnight to the National Anthem and come back on at 6 am. During that off time there would be nothing but a fuzzy looking screen called a “snow screen”.

There were antennas on the roof that captured the signal directly from the station, and sometimes, the stations would fail. A screen on a failed station would pop up that said, “Please stand by.” My brother Dave would tell me to go stand next to the television when this happened, and I did it because I thought that’s what we had to do. He said the electric aura of everyone standing by their sets would charge up the station and bring the picture back. What did I know?

Scattered around the house were five bedrooms with an extra big one for my parents. One wall in my parent’s room was almost all closets. They slept in separate beds, and I snoozed in a 60’s style crib in their room until I was five. We had a full bath with a separate shower and a showerhead over the bathtub. I never understood why we had two showers in one room. Maybe to rinse off multiple muddy kids at one time?

To the right of the tub was the sink with Dad’s magical blade sharpening pyramid overhead. There was a half bath outside the kitchen - a real blessing with so many people. I can’t imagine one bathroom in a house that full! The smell of Lucky Strike cigarettes will always remind me of home due to Mom and Dad smoking them indoors for years. There was a shelf in the refrigerator dedicated to school lunches, and I remember watching Mom line up bread for sandwiches. My mother was amazing; she could whip out sandwiches on a one-person assembly line like nobody’s business!

There was a three-car wide driveway made from stone, dirt, and several mud puddles with a garage door on both ends. I think Dad intended on finishing the driveway in a circular pattern so we could drive through the garage, but that never happened, so it remained a mosaic of crushed stone and dirt.

There was no sewer or plumbing in the area, but there were many underground springs around. My Aunt Joan came over with her gift for finding water. She used a peach branch in the shape of a “Y” for what she called “dowsing.” She showed Dad where to dig and he hit a bubbly “geyser”. We used that for water in the house. I’ll never forget the smell of the sulfur water that supported our family all those years. I always came out of the tub smelling like a rotten egg and I think I smelled better caked in mud. But seeing how my aunt located a thin vein and no spring, our well would dry up in the summer so we would go to the local gas station with empty milk bottles. Back then, the gas stations had free community hoses, so we filled the bottles up and brought them home.

There was a laundry room in a musty basement. Mom would do the wash and scream occasionally over a salamander slithering across the floor. The basement wasn’t finished, and the critters liked the dark dampness of it. Unfortunately, Mom would suffer the consequences. There were no gutters on the roof’s edge, so the rain would seep into the cellar. I’m sure this didn’t help Mom avoid the salamanders, but we had a good time with it! It’s just one of those “unsung songs” I remember specifically about our house.

We always had dinner together as a family. My mother would make a big pot of something, like pasta with meat sauce, which we called goulash, but always in bulk. We weren’t allowed to have the TV on or answer the phone during dinner. Sometimes, Dad would hide a candy bar in the kitchen, then while we ate, he would set one of us up to find it, but only if we said the “magic number.”

He would say, “Hunkey, how many fingers do I have?”

I would say sarcastically, “Ah, five?”

His answer: “That’s the lucky number! Go get the paper!”

Well, after I’d run round trip to the paper box, I’d either come back to a Mars Bar or an “IOU.” Yes, it was a crapshoot, but it always had an element of excitement!

At times, Dad would cook up venison on the stove, gulping beer and watching TV. Occasionally, he’d add a swish of beer to the pan. Our dog would sit at his feet, waiting for fat or grizzle from the pan.

This was his Saturday. On other Saturdays, especially in the summer, we would have grilled burgers in the backyard. Dad would instruct me to point a blow torch at a piece of charcoal until it lit the grill, which took forever, as he detested lighter fluid. A real treat was having actual buns and not just sliced bread to go with our burgers. Sauteed mushrooms and onions on our patties seemed to be a holiday.

Relaxation for me was the creek (pronounced “crick”) behind our house. We put down logs to walk over it and caught huge crayfish and bullfrogs....

Produkt-Details

• Erscheint lt. Verlag: 23.12.2022
• Vorwort: Dan S. Carroll
• Sprache: englisch
• Themenwelt: Literatur ► Biografien / Erfahrungsberichte
• ISBN-10: 1-6678-6897-7 / 1667868977
• ISBN-13: 978-1-6678-6897-4 / 9781667868974