Don't Settle For a Seat (eBook)

You Don't Belong at the Boys' Table-It's Time to Join Successful Women Rewr

Karrie Brady (Autor)

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2021 | 1. Auflage
136 Seiten
Lioncrest Publishing (Verlag)
9781544522746 (ISBN)

Infos

As women, we're half of the population. Yet, in today's world, we make most of the purchasing decisions. We know what we want, how we want it, and when we're ready to buy. But the business world-particularly anything sales related-wasn't designed with our strengths in mind. If you're not the stereotypical car dealer or Wall Street wolf, it's easy to feel ill-suited for entrepreneurship. We've been told to be flashy, conniving, convincing. We should be rebels and risk-takers who always get the 'win,' no matter what. But what if that's wrong? There's a demographic with an overlooked business advantage: women. We have the emotional intelligence, consumer experience, and marketing awareness to build the enterprise of our dreams. In Don't Settle for a Seat, business coach and entrepreneurial expert Karrie Brady helps you break down self-imposed barriers, overcome fear, and create your own path in entrepreneurship. Business is about listening, connecting, and empathizing-skills that come naturally to many women. If you have the drive, this playbook supplies the rest. Learn how to leverage your instincts, recognize your potential, and fulfill the role that was always meant for you.

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As women, we're half of the population. Yet, in today's world, we make most of the purchasing decisions. We know what we want, how we want it, and when we're ready to buy. But the business world-particularly anything sales related-wasn't designed with our strengths in mind. If you're not the stereotypical car dealer or Wall Street wolf, it's easy to feel ill-suited for entrepreneurship. We've been told to be flashy, conniving, convincing. We should be rebels and risk-takers who always get the "e;win,"e; no matter what. But what if that's wrong?There's a demographic with an overlooked business advantage: women. We have the emotional intelligence, consumer experience, and marketing awareness to build the enterprise of our dreams. In Don't Settle for a Seat, business coach and entrepreneurial expert Karrie Brady helps you break down self-imposed barriers, overcome fear, and create your own path in entrepreneurship. Business is about listening, connecting, and empathizing-skills that come naturally to many women. If you have the drive, this playbook supplies the rest. Learn how to leverage your instincts, recognize your potential, and fulfill the role that was always meant for you.

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Introduction

I can’t just sit here.

The thought was on autorepeat as I lay in bed the first night after I decided to drop out of college and move home. I had been living on my own, renting a one-bedroom house off campus and taking care of myself, without even a roommate to disrupt my independence. I was a nineteen-year-old sophomore studying biomedical engineering, fascinated with human health and hungry for knowledge. I planned to specialize in prosthetics and hoped to work with the Wounded Warriors Project in the future.

All that changed when my dad nearly died in a dirt-bike accident. He was riding on a new practice track and overshot a jump, landing on the ground with the wind knocked out of him and other riders headed his way. Disoriented, he scrambled to get out of their path and rode headfirst off the steep side of the track. Thankfully, he had his protective neck gear on because that was the only reason he made it out of the fifteen-foot drop alive at all. He did, however, have a broken neck that would take almost a year to heal. Even after weeks of bed rest, he would be unable to work, drive, or do simple household tasks for months.

My mom couldn’t take care of him herself—as the executive director of a nonprofit, she worked at least sixty hours a week to manage an organization that would fall apart without her. My sister had a kid, my brother was only fourteen, and hiring a stranger to care for my dad was no one’s idea of an ideal solution, so there I was. It felt right to be with my family during this crisis, but it certainly wasn’t what I expected to happen during one of my first years of adulthood.

A different kind of person might have viewed this as simply a forced sabbatical from college. All I had to do was take care of my dad, and my parents would put a roof over my head and food on the table just like in high school.

But to be honest, it burdened my psyche. Living with my parents after being so independent felt like life in reverse. If I wanted to live under my parents’ roof without feeling like a child again, I needed my own money. Settling for a meaningless paycheck seemed like a waste of time, but few other options were available to me—after all, I was just a high school grad with no real work experience other than summertime lifeguarding. Plus, I had to be available whenever my dad needed me, so regular hours were out of the question. What I really needed was total freedom to choose when and how much to work. (I think you know where this is going…)

The answer was to start my own business in the one thing I was interested in and qualified for: fitness. I was already in great shape; I’d played soccer in high school and became a religious workout fiend in college. I hadn’t finished my biomedical engineering studies yet, but I probably understood the human body better than the average gym trainer and definitely better than the average trainee, and all I had to do was get certified. Starting a personal training business was the perfect solution for my situation, and I knew it was possible because I could see that the health and fitness industry was blowing up online.

My story, while specific to me, isn’t really that special at all. Every entrepreneur starts with the same two ingredients: passion and need. Together, they create the fertile ground where sustainable, life-changing businesses grow.

Ready to Start Your Story?

If you have a passion and a need, you’re in the right place.

Let me guess: the conversation with the voice in your head sounds a little like this when you think about striking out on your own and starting a business.

“It would be so perfect to have my own business!” you think.

“But what if it doesn’t take off?” your inner critic says.

“I know my idea can work—look, that girl on Instagram is doing it.”

“But she’s clearly way more experienced. Why would anyone choose me over her?”

“Well, that’s not fair. Everyone has to start somewhere, right?”

“Sure, but there are already so many people doing what I want to do. I have no idea how to make people notice me, let alone convince them to pay me!”

“Yikes, maybe I’m not cut out for this…”

I’m not really guessing—that’s exactly what went through my mind when I decided to take the plunge, and that’s why I’m writing this book. Way too many women let these thoughts convince them not to pursue their business ideas. Worse, some give it a shot but never find the right path and end up with shattered dreams and broken hearts. That voice in our head is a problem, and it took me years to understand the solution. Let me save you some time and heartache (and probably a good chunk of money too).

The skills you need to launch a thriving business are already within you.

You use them every day without even realizing it. You listen to your friend and give her thoughtful advice. You entice your partner to focus on you, and only you. You relentlessly negotiate to get your kids to eat their vegetables. You convince your boss to give you an extra day off. You spend all day connecting with other people, serving their needs, and persuading them to serve yours in return.

Lightbulb moment—that’s all business is!

The stereotypes would have us believe otherwise. Business is about competition, transactions, numbers, and greed, right? White men at big tables in skyscrapers, moving millions with a handshake. Cookie-cutter products designed anonymously and made somewhere overseas. Sneaky ads that manipulate us to part with our hard-earned cash.

That’s the old way, and it’s dying fast. We want to buy products and services we understand, from real people we can trust, and a new generation of internet-powered entrepreneurs is making it happen. The response has been so powerful that even big corporations are changing their ways, recognizing the undeniable truth that people buy through emotional connection.

And here’s the best part: women are wired for it because we’re biologically and socially predisposed to value personal connection. We’re the primary caretakers in our species, the ones who physically birth the next generation and nurture it through its most vulnerable years, and evolution has equipped us to build the unbreakable emotional bonds that make it all possible. On top of that, society still teaches girls to fulfill the role of caretaker—to play nice, share, help others. Men simply aren’t primed for personal connection the way we are. In this new business paradigm, where money is made through genuine connection, women are the fittest for survival.

It’s as simple as this: your customers have problems, and you have solutions. The tools to make the connection are already in your toolbox. You just need to learn how to use them in new ways.

When I first launched my business, I didn’t know any of this. And spoiler alert: I bombed. Hard. I wasted years banging my head against a brick wall, putting more and more effort into the same flawed strategy because I didn’t understand what I was doing wrong. Eventually, I gave up, telling myself entrepreneurship just wasn’t for me. My story could have ended there, but thankfully, I found the opportunity and the courage to try again. When I finally learned to do it right, I was living my dream life within a year. One year. How much pain could I have saved if I had done it right from the start?

You don’t need to waste all that time. Instead, you can learn from my mistakes and eventual success. Before you take even one step down this road, we need to tear down the myths and limiting beliefs that will keep you from thriving, and teach you to use the tools already at your disposal. This book will guide you to overcome your fears and build a thriving business by tapping into the feminine instinct to connect and serve.

Second Time’s a Charm

When I set out to be an online fitness coach at age nineteen, I went all in…and all my worst fears came true. That nagging voice in my head? It was so right. Fitness is a crowded space. Anyone with a nice body and the patience to get through a few months of training (or maybe not) can throw their hat in the ring.

I knew I was a better coach than most. I had a deeper, more scientific understanding of exercise and nutrition, so I knew exactly how to help my clients reach their goals. I truly cared and put in more effort than anyone else I knew, hustling day and night to support my clients and attract new ones. For the first year, I’d be at the gym coaching clients from four-thirty to seven in the morning, come home and do marketing and sales work online while taking care of my dad, then head back to the gym to see more clients after my mom got home from work at six or seven in the evening. Nothing was more important to me than making this business work.

You wouldn’t be able to tell at first glance, though, since all that hustle didn’t seem...

Produkt-Details

• Erscheint lt. Verlag: 5.10.2021
• Sprache: englisch
• Themenwelt: Wirtschaft ► Betriebswirtschaft / Management
• ISBN-13: 9781544522746 / 9781544522746