131 Tips (eBook)

Enhancing Intimacy and Trust in Modern Relationships

Noah James (Autor)

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2025 | 1. Auflage
200 Seiten
Publishdrive (Verlag)
9780000960894 (ISBN)

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Are you struggling to maintain passion and intimacy in your relationship? Do you feel like something's missing in your love life? Discover the secrets to transforming your relationship both inside and outside the bedroom with this comprehensive guide to amazing sex and lasting love.

In today's fast-paced world, maintaining a fulfilling relationship and satisfying sex life can seem like an impossible challenge. Relationship experts Becky Morethroat and Peter Long bring their combined expertise to deliver 131 proven tips that will revolutionize your intimate life. Drawing from years of experience in couples therapy and sexuality studies, they've created a unique approach that addresses both the physical and emotional aspects of relationships. This isn't just another sex manual - it's a complete roadmap to building and maintaining a passionate, respectful, and lasting partnership. The authors understand that amazing sex doesn't start in the bedroom; it's built on a foundation of trust, communication, and mutual understanding. Their practical, no-nonsense approach tackles everything from boosting testosterone levels to managing finances, proving that every aspect of your life impacts your intimate connection.

This comprehensive guide goes beyond simple tips and tricks, offering a complete system for transforming your relationship from the inside out. Whether you're looking to spice up your sex life or build a stronger foundation for lasting love, this book provides the tools you need to create the relationship you've always dreamed of.

Unlock the secrets to amazing sex and lasting love - grab your copy today!

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CHAPTER 1: OUTSIDE OF

THE BEDROOM TIPS

INTRODUCTION TO CHAPTER 1:

Many people believe that amazing sex begins and ends inside of the bedroom, and to many, at first glance, many of the tips in this chapter wouldn’t even seem to have any effect on your sex life or relationships health at all. This opinion could not be further from the truth!

Our sex drives and how we feel about each sexual experience is influenced by so many things, many of which do not even occur in the bedroom. Having amazing sex and a successful relationship takes time, patience, and much sacrifice on your behalf as well as on your partner’s behalf. It won’t just occur over night and it will never happen if you don’t try.

There are so many factors to having a successful relationship that most people don’t even know how to navigate through the basics. However, this chapter is dedicated to the tips that you can follow only outside of the bedroom in order to achieve amazing sex and a more successful relationship.

1. BOOST YOUR TESTOSTERONE LEVELS: Of course, women do not need to boost their testosterone levels. Female bodies only produce very small amounts naturally, and too much testosterone would cause a woman to grow more hair and in unusual places for a female—like on her face and chest—it would make her more aggressive, even hostile, and would throw off her normal menstrual cycle.

For males, testosterone is responsible for many very important things in your sex and everyday life. Your daily strength, getting and maintaining an erection and it’s strength, your stamina, sex drive, attitude, your level of aggressiveness, hair production and body fat can all effect your sex life and relationship more than most other things, and all of these things can be determined by how healthy a man’s testosterone levels are.

There is no need to immediately freak out because the amount of testosterone a males body produces decreases naturally as he ages. Decrease in testosterone levels can be caused by lack of sleep, lack of exercise, stress, not having enough sex, or a natural occurrence due to aging. However, a man can usually increase his testosterone levels by simple life changes, getting good quality sleep every night, regular weight lifting and cardio exercises, less stress, and by having more sex. Men should check with their urologist or an endocrinologist; a quick blood lab can tell you whether or not low testosterone levels are at issue.

A few simple signs that may reveal whether you should go get that test or not are if you crave naps throughout the day when your work load is relatively light, if you are experiencing hair loss, decreased stamina, strength or appetite, you may have decreased testosterone levels and should consider getting a checkup. If the male in the relationship needs to boost his testosterone levels, then naturally should always be the first choice if it can be helped. Hormones and testosterone boosting products should only be taken by a male when he cannot produce a healthy level on his own, because taking unnecessary products to boost testosterone levels when a male doesn’t need them could cause his body to stop producing it’s own testosterone temporarily, permanently, or for a prolonged period of time. This amount of testosterone loss would prove to be catastrophic for your sex life and overall daily functioning.

So males that have low testosterone levels should do themselves and their partner’s a favor and increase them naturally with life changes if they can help it.

*2. CHEATING: Since both sex and your relationship are highly dependent on the emotions of the two people involved, cheating on your partner can damage or destroy the emotional connection between the two of you. Therefore, cheating on your partner is not in either of your best interests. Even if you don’t get caught now, your infidelity could all very well come out later on down the road and that can even be worse than getting caught in the present because you’ve been through and built more between the two of you in that time which will cause them more pain and embarrassment than if you’d have come clean when it happened.

Or even if it doesn’t come out, you could become stressed out from all the extra burdens that come with infidelity like trying not to get caught around town by your partner or anyone who knows your taken, hiding your phone and social media accounts when you’re around them, taking extra showers and additional hygiene precautions, stressing about hoping you don’t contract and transfer an STD, stress about extra money you may have to spend, because extra lovers are not always cheap, and the guilt and anxiety that can wear you down that comes natural with infidelity.

Even worse, by cheating on your partner you risk contracting and transferring an STD to them, which is both disgusting and will not go over well with your partner. If you want other people and things other than what your partner can offer you, then there are easier ways to handle those desires, like being the better, more considerate person and just breaking up with your partner to spare both of you the drama, heartache, stress and embarrassment of being cheated on or contracting and STD from you.

Another approach you could take would be to talk to them, explain your needs, wants and/or about whoever is tempting you. This could end in a break up as well, but it would still be better than all that could happen otherwise.

3. CHECKING ON THEM: If you don’t ever check on your partner throughout the day, that could make them feel like you don’t care that much for them, it can make them feel lonely and could lead to them to confide in someone else whenever they need someone. Check on your partner throughout the day by asking them how their day is going, how they’re feeling, let them know that they are on your mind and if they tell you anything other than a positive response, ask them what you can do to make their day better. By doing this you show your partner that you are considerate and want to be there for them. Not only will this earn you some “awe, my partner’s so sweet” points—but it could genuinely teach you to care more for and appreciate your partner.

4. CLEAN YOUR SEX PAD: Not many people would like to admit that their partner’s place is as messy as a pigs pin. Having a messy sex pad can be a major turn off for your partner and it shows a complete lack of consideration on your part because by not cleaning up, you show that you don’t care much about what they think about how nasty you’re living.

When you can’t keep your living area clean people get to wondering about whether or not your body is just as unclean as your place is! So whether its your bedroom, other parts of the house, your car, your office, etc., make sure you straighten up your areas before your partner comes over. Don’t worry, the two of you can mess it up again!

5. COFFEE: By drinking three cups of coffee a day, you can greatly increase your energy levels, stamina and sex drive which are all very important if you want to perform well. However, you should brush your teeth and tongue after every cup to help avoid yellowing teeth and dragons breath.

6. COLOGNE/PERFUME, LOTION, & DEODORANT: Using these types of body freshening products can be an easy way to draw your partner into you and help turn them on to you if you use choose products that are pleasing to them. You could use products that they don’t prefer on you—it’s your choice—but the more that your partner is attracted to you, the easier it will be to seduce them, and the better the sex and relationship will most likely be.

7. DANCING: Good dancers can move their hips and bodies in ways that are excellent for having great sex because dance movements help us to better hit those touch sensitive spots while making love. Dancing can increase your flexibility, stamina, sex drive, it is a great cardio exercise that tightens the body in all the right places, it can increase the feeling of partnership between you and your partner, it can help us relax and unwind and it can be super fun, romantic and sexy. So try out a dance class, or just make up the moves as you go, take your partner out and have a great time.

8. DATE ON YOUR LEVEL: No one can really help where, when and with whom they meet someone who they are interested in dating or want to have sex with. We encounter people every time we leave the house and attraction either happens or it doesn’t. However, it may be better to date people who are within a reasonable range of your own standard of living, income level, age, and social class.

For example: if you’re use to eating out at restaurants where anyone can walk in and order a complete meal for $20 a person on average, you would be on very bad footing if you’re trying to take someone out who is use to restaurants where you need to book a reservation weeks in advance and meals are $200 per person.

In that situation, paying for dinner would probably mean that you just blew most of your rent money!

Not only do differences in income level make eating and going out awkward, but hanging around people of different social levels that have a much higher standard of living than you can be down right unbearable. Imagine pulling up for a night out on the town with your new girlfriend and several of her friends who all drive top of the line luxury vehicles, while you drive a beat down 1980’s car where the exhaust backfires every time you change gears. #EMBARRASSINGASHELL!

Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with not being able to afford expensive foods, gifts, cars, and other things; but the differences in income and social levels can at times make a relationship awkward, difficult...

Produkt-Details

• Erscheint lt. Verlag: 6.7.2025
• Sprache: englisch
• Themenwelt: Sachbuch/Ratgeber ► Gesundheit / Leben / Psychologie ► Partnerschaft / Sexualität
• ISBN-13: 9780000960894 / 9780000960894