Alpha Kings (eBook)

Nick Adams (Autor)

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2024 | 1. Auflage
86 Seiten
Bookbaby (Verlag)
979-8-3509-4349-8 (ISBN)

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The Roadmap For Every Young Man To Unlock Their Full Potential. Featuring a foreword from President Donald J. Trump, Alpha Kings unapologetically makes the case for traditional masculinity. Nick Adams, using his world-class wisdom and wit, shows the young men of America what it means to be a true alpha male in today's hyper-feminized world. Tackling the culture wars, sports, and politics, Alpha Kings is sure to land on the shelf next to books like The Bible and The Art of the Deal, the greatest books in history.

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Chapter 1
It’s All in the Definitions
 

Standing up for men is something I have been doing for a while.

In October 2013, almost three years before I immigrated to the United States, I sat down with Mrs. Ginni Thomas. For those who do not know, Mrs. Thomas is the wife of legendary Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas, who I believe to be one of the greatest Americans to have ever lived.

In a wide-ranging interview about my new book at that time, we somehow made our way to the issue of men’s rights.

I told her, "All aspects of male culture have been called into question. Whether it's gathering around on a Sunday afternoon to watch football with a few friends, whether it is going to the range and shooting some guns, whether it is just being a male has now been really been made suspect – and that is a very dangerous thing. We see it coming from all levels of society.”

Not long after it was published, I received an email from a producer of Fox & Friends asking me to come on the Show to discuss these comments. I was heading back home to Australia, so the timing didn’t work, but I was told to let them know the next time I was back, and they would gladly have me on.

I returned a couple of months later, and on January 16, 2014, I sat down with Elisabeth Hasselbeck, Steve Doocy, and Clayton Morris for an interview on the curvy couch that would end up going viral.

During this interview, I explained that most guys in America are getting squashed under the thumb of Big Feminism and that all that modern feminism had achieved was ‘angry women and feminine men.’ I also observed that these difficult circumstances that men had to operate in made them ‘sweat more than Paris Hilton doing a crossword’ when it came to decision making, and concluded that ‘wimps and wusses deliver mediocrity and real men win.’

Well, as you might imagine, every feminist and her lesbian sister came after me. That was my first encounter with the handbag hit squad and militant lavender lobby (they had a few less letters back then!)

I’ll take the heat; it doesn’t bother me. When you had a father as tough as mine, everything else pales in comparison.

I just don’t want men to be taken advantage of. Since that interview almost a decade ago, things have become significantly worse for us.

The culture and society in the United States is gravely ill. There is no beta tapdancing that can finesse that reality. As a once-legal immigrant, now-naturalized American citizen, I can’t tell you how much this hurts me. Even with all its problems, the US remains the greatest country in the history of the world.

It’s still the place that affords the most freedom and opportunity to the maximum number of people. There is still nowhere I would rather wake up. In the last twelve months, when I have traveled to Australia, the Middle East, and Europe, as soon as I land back in the States, I feel like kissing the ground.

But the United States is clearly not what it once was – nor is the culture healthy as it once was. At 38 years old at the time of writing, visiting regularly from the age of 24, and immigrating at 31, I obviously never got to see the country or experience the culture at its zenith.

I wish for a return to that version of America, where the traditional family unit was strong, fatherlessness was rare, there was no dispute that there were only two genders, drag queens were not reading to children in public libraries, and where men were manly, and women were, well, feminine. A place where a man like me is celebrated for his success and masculinity, not persecuted for it.

Don’t get me wrong. This war on men and the feminization of the culture is happening everywhere. No country or culture is totally immune. It’s just a whole lot worse in America. Once more, even around gender relations, America is exceptional as it always is. Except this is one form of exceptionalism that it could do without…

At the crux of everything are two definitions.

These definitions came from women and are accepted by men. More than that, they have become so ingrained and entrenched in the culture it is almost impossible to have these definitions replaced. But it is desperately needed, as they are extraordinarily destructive to men in every way. They are at the heart of the explanation for why men are being taken advantage of every day and why so many are in such a poor mental state.

The first definition, as it relates to the subject, is what makes a man in America considered successful in their personal life.

Now, read this part carefully, and let it sink in, because this is really screwed up.

An American man sees his value as based upon the attractiveness of the woman that he can pull. Let’s not forget that the term ‘trophy wife’ was coined in America. It’s somehow become a symbol of success, capitalism, winning, and all the other great American traits. A hot wife is the ultimate reward in the American male mind.

So, a woman has become literally a trophy in the United States. To a successful man here, a woman is now another material item that you just pick up, like a Ferrari or a mansion. That’s why men are willing to take something shiny, something that looks good – it’s why in America, looks matter more than anything else. Now, I’d be lying if I said I haven’t used my devilish good looks to my advantage in America, but that’s not the point.

It follows, therefore, that a man doesn’t mind anything a woman puts him through because her mere presence at his side shows the (American) world that he is successful.

It’s a totally different mindset.

When I see a hot blonde woman in yoga pants with a Rolex watch walking three miniature poodles with a man next to her, I think about what a loser this man must be and what a pain in the ass the woman probably is. But most men in America look at the same situation with different eyes…. They think about what a winner this man is, ponder how successful he must be, and wonder how they can get one of these women.

It took me a long time living in America to realize this. But that’s what it is. That’s why men stay in these relationships. That’s why they put up with it.

I know this guy, Jack, who had a very attractive wife. I didn’t know them when they first got married, so I can’t speak about the early years of their relationship. But I did know them both for the last six years of their union. In that period, from what I could see and from what he shared with me, his very attractive wife didn’t care about him. She didn’t cook for him, she didn’t clean for him, she grumbled when his friends were coming over, she barely worked, and she didn’t even sleep with him. She ended up leaving him – and they got divorced.

When I heard the news, I was happy for him, honestly. I celebrated his liberation. He could have done much better.

In fact, I was mystified why he hadn’t given his wife the flick earlier – I could not see any way that she contributed to his life or how he benefited from having her around.

But now I understand why he took the divorce so hard and why he put up with an emotionally unavailable, financially draining, and physically unreceptive wife.

She kept him looking successful.

And today’s American men have come to prioritize this mirage of success above all else.

Much to my chagrin, Jack still wears his wedding ring to this day. Super nice guy, but a hopeless beta who is victim to this wholly incorrect and wrong definition of success.

Many of you enjoy my famous Twitter stories, the factual retellings of my day-to-day life that have become viral sensations. Well, in one of them, I relayed the experience of turning up late to a date.

She didn’t know, nor was it any of her business, but before I left to see her, I linked with some masculine guys at a private club to pregame. One thing led to another, and before you knew it, I was running a bit behind.

Once I managed to tear myself away from the bonds of male friendship, I opened up my phone to call an Uber. Unfortunately, there weren’t many Uber Blacks in the area, and the estimated wait time was 20 minutes. I was tempted to call a standard Uber, which only had a wait time of 2 minutes, but decided to press on and wait it out. Thank goodness I did, too. Sliding into the back seat of a Mercedes GLE 350 after a wild afternoon with the boys just hits different.

We encountered a bit of traffic on the way across town, but I wasn’t bothered. The car was comfortable, and “Born Free” by Kid Rock rang in my ears. I stepped out of the car and saw the sheila I was meeting. She was a fetching figure but wearing an unwelcoming expression and tapping her foot impatiently.

I let this young lady (who was and remains a very nice person that I really liked, but sadly didn’t know any better) finish her diatribe and then asked her if she was finished. She said yes. I said, “OK – I’d like you to leave.” She made the mistake of thinking that she, as the woman, held the upper hand.

When I sent this Twitter story post to one wealthy friend in his late fifties, he responded – “I’m a bigger dick than you are, but I’d rather get laid.” Naturally, I laughed and called him a “cuck.” His response? “I’m married 37 years to a hot blonde.”

See what I mean about this warped definition? I’m married to a hot blonde, which means I am successful. That’s all that matters.

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Produkt-Details

• Erscheint lt. Verlag: 26.1.2024
• Vorwort: Donald Trump
• Sprache: englisch
• Themenwelt: Sachbuch/Ratgeber ► Gesundheit / Leben / Psychologie ► Lebenshilfe / Lebensführung
• ISBN-13: 979-8-3509-4349-8 / 9798350943498